Sexism and Equality

Now most people , in fact women as a whole complain about the fact that they arent treated "equally" or given equal chances to do things and are always bullied out by men, they rant and its quite justified because we have been [as a country and a complete community] been trying to push the entire female gender down under the soles of the other gender men, am keeping the 3rd genders away from this topic, for now.

My point now is that while we have tried our level best to you know bridge the gap between the sexes and try to treat the other gender equally but still a few of them, i dont mean the vast majority but still a few of em arent happy enough with our "treatment" of the other sex, they still say that men are preferred and treated better in most circumstances, but the question is do women actually know how we men treat other men, as in friends and or enemies?

First thing we do is abuse the shit out of each other, either behind each others backs[ well actually this is what women do], if we men have to say something we do say it , no beating around the bush and of course abuse the day lights out of each other especially if we are friends, in fact I personally abuse my friends and close friends a hell lot more than the people i hate or dont like, so i should technically and every man should not shut their trap when they see a woman close by, because of course they should see how we arent acting or treating em differently

Infact that is my bone of contention, why is it that women are supposed to be treated the same but still be treated differently when we men are around em,dont abuse,dont shout,dont act like you have never eaten food before and hog out, dont make sexual jokes,its not like women dont do the same,just because they do it in a group all silent and unknown to idiots does it mean its alright for them but not for us?

Like in one case,while i was abusing in college a girl tells me
"adeem you should look at who is around you,like a girl is there, you shouldnt abuse"
me:did i abuse you?
girl: no
me:See thats the problem, when i try to treat men and women the same , you people still have a problem, and rather than saying that i treat women equally i end up being a sexist and a chauvinist .

Its simple, women have double standards,they want the best of both worlds
its like
They want to have the cake,eat it too,not share it,bake a brand new cake,show it to the men ,make em drool and then say,"you dirty rascals dont know how to behave,so we eat this cake also"
typical